(a) I personally believe that love is nothing without lust. Yeah, if i wanna have a damn good chemistry for relationship, i need to “make a love”. The love i pursue is the lust that trails along with. When i confess “i love you”, is the same thing as “ i wanna have a sex with you” (yeah but not in a hurried pace, but slowly and gradually. But if it could happen in a quick time, then it’s an awesome bonus.. tee-hee).
Perhaps some people bother that doujin is simply showing the pervert part of the man and the slut character of woman. The essence of true love is limitedly covered and emphasized. I said, why not? What’s wrong when the man being pervert for the girl he loves and being slut for the boy she fond of? That’s where cherished bond will take place and the joy of the couple will tease.
I know the “true love” is something we would barely to see in the doujin. We should know that the doujin is focusing more lust. If we balance it with some romance reading’s material or show, then it will do no commotion. I know that sex is not the only thing and part in love. But, why i can’t enjoy my youngster spirit as the others do and as what the boomer who give this kind of “advice” did in their young age? Yeah. There’s a love occur without or little sex, but sorry, that’s not part of my life. You may goes well with it, but i don’t. Everyone’s story and life is vary each other.
(b) Probably i’m influenced by so much romantic manga and anime since i was pre-teenage. That’s the age where i’ve been exposed and discovered the romantic relationship and sweet happy couple. That’s where i started to love to purchase and collect the Gempak Starz’s romance comic collection (it was RM-4 - RM 7 back then). I’ll take a high priority to buy that kind of book first and i’m impatiently waiting the new release of comics. Then, i got the Animax channel for Astro. That time, romance genre it’s just like a phenomenon just like the Isekai genre today. Almost every anime show is about love’s pursuit and struggle.
Thus, i learn, the meaningful value of kissing. The best and greatest climax for the story. The kissing part will be the part i’m immensely yearned so much. But somehow, eventually, i feel it’s still not enough. “Is that it?”, i questioned. I think there’s something which i lack and know nothing about it. In that time, i’m already know what’s the porn is, but i have no slight apprehend that the love could exist in the “ah-ah-ah-aaah yeah fuck me hard, cum inside me!” activity.
Later, i found out the meaning when some manga and anime is showing the “sleep together” scene [not just as you see in porn or ecchi or sort of it, but (commonly) just kissing and romance talk or expression in a missionary position with covered naked body (and little thrusting in-out-in-out act) in a blanket and ending with the scene of showing house in the night-enclosed sky]. That’s where i gradually understand why sex is crucial need and important part of love relationship.
That’s the spark of my interest to discover more doujin thing to learn and enjoy the making love moment. This makes me recalled the quote :
“Kissing and cudling makes me feel loved. Intense, naughty and rough sex makes me feel wanted”
Ha! There is it!
(c) My field is translation. Hence, it’s go without saying that i obligated to seek more vocabulary and word to learn for. But why i need to learn some “dirty” words? The other reason is to create a creative writing, especially when i wanna compose some poem, one have to “extraordinary” word which trigger the mind to think more active and powerful. Common word didin’t do this as. much as per “outstanding” word.
Dirty word is essential phrase and expression we need to create a chemistry and intimate atmosphere in the bed. I already told you that this “naughty” word and expression will ignite more intense and “woah” of delightful feeling. That’s the very reason i think every couple need to learn a lot this kind of work which could deepening the copulation. I reminded some Arabic poem’s regarding this :
وَيُعْجِبُنِي مِنْكِ حَالَ الجِمَاعِ # لِينُ الكَلامِ وَضَعْفُ النَّظَرِ
What drives my excitement over our intercourse is …
Your soft talk and your amiable gaze
Oh yeah! I feels like i wanna listening my partner sing gently and beautifully expressing Avril Lavigne’s song “Hot” :
I wanna lock you up in my closet
When no one’s around
I wanna put your hand in my pocket
Because you’re allowed
I wanna drive you into the corner
And kiss you without a sound
I wanna stay this way forever
I’ll say it loud
[Pre-chorus]
Now you’re in, and you can’t get out
[Chorus]
You make me so hot
Make me wanna drop
It’s so ridiculous
I can barely stop
I can hardly breathe
You make me wanna scream
You’re so fabulous
You’re so good to me
[Post-chorus]
Baby, baby
You’re so good to me, baby, baby
I can make you feel all better
Just take it in
And I can show you all the places
You’ve never been
And I can make you say everything
That you’ve never said
And I will let you do anything
Again and again
(Repeat Pre-Chorus and Chorus)
Kiss me gently
Always I know
Hold me, love me
Don’t ever go, oh, oh
Oh, yeah, yeah
(Repeat Chorus 2x and post chorus)
(d) Doujin (or may be some other kind of porn) could be an useful material to learn what we like or what we don’t, discover our suit preference and the uninterested one. For me, sex is not something simply “try and error” to generate the pleasurement. One need a preparation and to-do-list in the sex menu or have a clear ideal entertaining sex. Discussing your partner and understand how each other works.
It’s not a mere activity which boy insert his penis in the vagina, thrusting in-out-in out with gasp’s breath and ending it with ejaculation. It’s simply how you create enjoyable moment with your partner in the bed or somewhere else. The more creative you are, the broader space you have to add up the spice of excitement in love-making.
That’s why we have to learn more and everyday. We may have a sex life for 40 years with our partners. So, are we gonna stay in the same way for that long? Then learn. Present your partner something that amaze and enliven your lovely time together.
(e) Doujin express something more deeply and “darker”. I can’t blame (or some sort of it) the TV show or may be producer or people who involve in making it seems like or have to censor or filtering some content, scene and anything else for pleasing public audience. I understand that circumstances. So, if you wanna have a “deep” or some beyond what public shows to you, so you can learn or delve the understanding more, then Doujin is the place where it belongs.
So, you guys have an opinion? Feel free to share it.
By the way, the code for this picture is 286444. One of my favorite vanilla doujin.
https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=129575425174798&set=pb.100043670240307.-2207520000..&type=3&theater
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