How Do I Make A Judge When There's A Drama Between Two People?

Yeah. I do aware of the drama between people, but i don't give a shit about that as long as one of they don't make a commotion with me. Except if i have personal or maybe more bigger scope problem, like that person is really socially toxic, then i wouldn't mind to join.

But at least let me (and somebody else) have a freedom and right to befriend whom i (and they) want and interact whom i interested to. Not because i'm simply try to be moderate of neutral, but i try to avoid the dispute with each other as much as possible.

My youngster spirit in a long time ago give no fuck to pick a fight and quarrel with people recklessly and without hesitate, but as the long time passed, i regret for doing that bullshit. Some of them was the one who i take him as nemesis, now is the one i really craving to befriend with and someone i want to learn something from him. I don't want to see more the disunity. Enough is enough.

I know you really hate that guy so much. But you know, if i getting along with him, it doesn't mean i'm on his side on the issue you dispute over. Since i have nothing to do with it, why should i hate something i know nothing about it or something doesn't in my concern list? If you hate him, then should this world and every single fucking person in the earth hate him as much you hate? No, this world had no obligation to restrict on solely one person's mind.

But, sometimes when this happen, i'm able to know who is the one more toxic when disputing. If someone try to compel me (when i am, or you're unrelated to the dispute) to make a choice "you're either with him or hate me?" directly or inderectly, now i know this one is the most toxic person (even though i or you do not have a chemistry relationship with the person he or she dispute with). Because if i don't make a choice (while i have no obligation to do that), sooner or later, he or she will make you as an enemy over my neglect to give a damn about it. It's better to forsake this one.

If you're on that one's side. It's a tiresome in the ass to please him or her just to ensure you're getting along while you're compelled to do that stuff, not in sincere manner If you don't, he or she will shamelessly make an accuse that you're sided with the one he or she dispute with whilst you're not, or he or she will do anything to find a reason to tell you're deserved to be hated. So what? This is the person we have to wary.

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